When the girls talk

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WHEN THE GIRLS TALK

one situation in KLCC park.

A girl are telling bf her problem that she faced with her  friends.

Aliyah :  Ali, i feel so sad... My bestfriend kutuk i belakang i.. She told everyone that i dapat pointer teruk last semester. I can believe she do that! Die kawan baik sendiri. Kenapa die kutuk i belakang i.. :(

Ali : OMG! really? teruk nye die. Why dont you jumpe die and marah die .  If i jadi you, i dah putus kawan .    Or you  slow talk la dgn die tanya knpa buat U macam ni..

Aliyah : U cakap senang lah. now , kawan i lain suma xnak kawan i dah..

Ali :  Chill la sayang.. next sem buat betul2 ye.

Aliyah : YOU DONT GET IT DONT YOU??? MY LIFE IS OVER, AND NOW YOU SURUH I CHILL! YOU SO HEARTLESS!!

Ali : ** seriously, i was trying to help..  :(

Sedar tak? When a girl talks about their problem, a guys selalu interupt her and offer solution. He thinks she will feel much better when she has a solution.  That is a bad move my friends . She only want to talk and ignores his solution. Kalo die x ignore pon, die akan angguk kejap and continued storying .  That is guys. Guys dont want to talk about it, they want to solve it .

But for girls, talking is the way to release the stress. Later that day , Alliyah call her bestfriend and telling her problem, its  non stop talking giving her a full details. And guess what?  When Aliyah talk, her bestfriend just replied  "really?" , "OMG" , "why?" , " i cant believe she do that" , "lagi?" . And that replied, gonna make Aliyah talk more. Finally, Aliyah will feel better and dah x rasa sedih lagi.  She thanks to her friend sebab dengar masalah dia, eventhough the problem are not solved. 


"When you are dealing with an upset girls, DO NOT offer solution . Just show her you are listening. Make a body language that you are sympathise and empathise to her problem. "

 

Guys are always a problem solver, they usually think about the solution and than they'll talk.  BUT  in some situation, if you want to make yourself useful . Hearing would be the best. :)




P/s :  I never give solution cuz  my solution are always wrong. haha -_-'