Hello guys,

Sorry for the long hiatus. Guess Im back. But this time, a special episode!

We gonna talk about sweet potato made from Chiba, Japan. Unlike Malaysian potato, Chiba Sweet Potato is brown in colour and taste very sweet. It is not added any preservative, but just natural sugar that content in the potato. Old folks in Malaysia usually consume sweet potato but adding sugar or also "sambal" which is spicy but delicious. You can try it with chiba sweet potato as well ! Some people add vanila ice cream in their recipe, but i prefer the original taste.

It contain lots fibre, carbohydrate and enough nutrition to keep our body healthy. Thats why its a main food in Japan ! Sweet potato lover can rush to Bangsar Village, Village Grocer to your potato with very affordable price. I buy 5 potato was only RM25. The best thing is, #chibasweetpotato is best to eat any time! As a staple food, main dish or dessert. Try it out now !

P/s : I dont mind to be called Mr.Potato

The Ultimate High Five test .

Here the situation, :
you have been dating with this girl for a while and you're ready to go for the next level. But somehow you're too blind to see the sign given by the lady so you not sure if she will accept or not.


So here the hi five test to figure out if a woman is interested … here is a little test you can do that will help you gage the amount of interest a woman has.

What you have to do : 
As you’re talking to that person , and she says something you like, give her a high five.

We all know that he key is that as you slap her hand sort of grip her fingers for a split second. Her reaction to this indicates her comfort level around you.


If she pulls her hand immediately away, or leaves her fingers limp, she probably still does not feel comfortable around you. 

On the other hand, if she hold her hand there for a second, grips your fingers back, or sort of lets her hand slide against yours … it’s a pretty good indicator that you’ve developed a nice level of rapport with her.

P/S  : Good luck :) 

How to detect lies .

So last semester i took a psychology  subject and they teach me how to detect lies. So Im gonna share it here :)


When you asked a question to  right-handed person looks (from your viewpoint, looking at them):




Up and to the Left
Indicates: Visually Constructed Images (Vc)
If you asked someone to "Imagine a purple boobs ", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Visually Constructed" a purple boobs in their mind.



Up and to the Right
Indicates: Visually Remembered Images (Vr)
If you asked someone to "What color was the first house you lived in?", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Visually Remembered" the color of their childhood home.



To the Left
Indicates: Auditory Constructed (Ac)
If you asked someone to "Try and create the highest the sound of the pitch possible in your head", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Auditorily Constructed" this this sound that they have never heard of.


To the Right
Indicates: Auditory Remembered (Ar)
If you asked someone to "Remember what their mother's voice sounds like ", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Auditorily Remembered " this sound.


Down and to the Left
Indicates: Feeling / Kinesthetic (F)
If you asked someone to "Can you remember the smell of your girlfriend hair? ", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they used recalled a smell, feeling, or taste.

 


Down and To the Right
Indicates: Internal Dialog (Ai)
This is the direction of someone eyes as they "talk to themselves".

 

 

How this information is used to detect lies:

Example: Ask your guy  what he was  doing last night ?

If he lie, his eyes will be UP and LEFT. because he is creating a stories using the visually constructive image. He might say he was at friend house playing D.O.T.A , but actually he went to a movie with a stunning  45kg girl .

 If he telling the truth his eyes will be UP and RIGHT . Because he use the visually remembered image. If he play DOTA, he will say he play DOTA.

However, if he said he was playing D.O.T.A , this will set up a certain impression that a guy who play DOTA is boring and socially lame or nerd or something. So basically the guy would still have to lie and tell her he was playing guitar . Sorry ladies, we just have to lie.

Men love to lie, and how bout ladies?

liar, liar.

When I mean lying, I don't only mean lying to other women. Men will lie to everyone with impunity about anything and everything under the sun, from the number of women he has slept with and his dick  size, to how much he bench presses at the gym .

So the theory is . Men love to lie, but they are absolutely horrible at it. Women rarely lie, but when they do, it's a story so good that it could be the basis for 100 episodes of a Indon Drama




For example : 
1 ) When a couple are dating,  An attractive awesome lady  comes down the street. then the GF said " she is soooo prettyyyyyyy "  and  to be wise the guys shall not agree with her  and better say that person is  ugly and full of cellulite.



2) Your girl  put on a few extra pounds, the guy HAVE to say  she's in the best shape of her life.

3) You ask you BF what he's doing. He probably say " nothing ". yeah righttttt




To be clear, a guy lie  because he is lazy, he is lazy to talk or drag a conversation too long. But beyond the faults women might have, men don't always have to lie. This thing come spontaneously when we deal with something that we know could lead to anything.  But most of it are harmless lie.

These lies are often at the tip of their tongues and ready for any situation.

It's not entirely men's faults. They are raised to lie from the moment they are born. Protect your family and lie about bad things; lie about how you really wanted to cry during Forrest Gump ; lie about your age so you can buy cigarettes  at  7-11

lying for a living

Is it a coincidence that men hold the majority of jobs that involve lying? Politics, government agencies, courtroom lawyers, plastic surgeons, psychiatrists -- who calls the shots? GUYS

Not that all men lie, of course not. But from experience (and 99% of women will back me up on this), the only men who don't lie are those devoted to their religion, gay, or have had their tongue removed.

Now let's turn the tables. Men lie often, but most times these are harmless lies that are said to protect their ego more than anything. Women have ulterior motives.

Laddies  fib

Women hate lying. But unlike men, when they have to, they carefully craft a maze of stories, alibis and twists the whole story .

If men were a little smarter, they would figure out when a woman is lying. Here are some clues to let you know when a woman is spinning a wicked web (hint, hint, it's learning time).

Clue No. 1
The Unnecessary Phone Call
She calls you suddenly and ask as much information about your whereabouts and what your future schedule is for the rest of the day.
Will she sound suspicious?
Not really, she'll smoothen out all her answers with what she will do to you tomorrow .
What is she really trying to do?
She's trying to take how much of an alibi she needs and where you were during the day to prevent you from bluffing later about knowing her whereabouts or what she about to do then she go date with someone else  .

Clue No. 2
The Reversal
She does something out of the ordinary, and when you ask her about it, she turns it around and make it a question about trust, and how you have no right to question her.
What is she really doing?
slowly, she has put the thing men dread on the table; the talk about "feeling". There is no better way to divert suspicion than to get a man into a talk about trust. or  worst case she started to mengungkit kisah lama.
End result?
He won't ask another question, and she just got away with going out to lunch with a cute hair guy.


Clue No. 3
The Affection Level Is Too High
Is there anything more suspicious than when a woman suddenly starts kissing you or do something to seduce you
 What's going on?
The beginning of a cover-up some shitt
What did she do wrong?
Something very, very bad. Or she's pregnant.

 Women hate lying, they do it only out of necessity. Men love it; it gives them validation to their illusions or laziness.  Women do it like professionals; men do it with amateurish results.

Why guys always chill when it comes to break up ?

Pernah dengar tak ayat ayat macam ni? :

•  “When a guy’s relationship ends, he replaces her. When a woman’s relationship ends, she mourns and cry all night forever. ,” 
•  “He’s just hooking up with such-and-such to spite the ex-girlfriend,” 
•  “Guys just don’t care”

Tapi semua itu adalah tidak betul ! I'll show you some of the universal truths about guys and breakups – some of which may surprise you

 Breakups are hard on all guys and they also cry ! .  Simple enough to say, but I know plenty of women will talk about some guy who was an   jackass to her after the relationship fell apart.
The fact is: If a guy is found really terrible after a breakup, it is just testament to how rough the breakup was on him. Some people have to understand

But what about the guy who breaks up and goes totally cold?

This will happen when the girls part make mistake. For example perempuan tu curang, and he is not happy. Thus we the break up occur, he will feel better.

Guys like to keep their emotional  focused on a tight range of emotions. So any interaction that a guy knows will bring him out of that sweet range of emotions is an interaction he’s going to do everything he can to avoid. So he can avoid missing her.

Personally, I have had breakups where I pretty much went cold and normal . It’s not that I simply stopped caring. I wanted her to be OK, I wanted good things for her in life, but I knew that nothing was going to make the situation better.

Nothing can help it anymore, especially bila most of it from the ladies mistake . I realize it probably came off jerky, but when I cut off communication, my heart is in the right place.

But what about the guy that immediately gets into a new relationship right afterward?

This is a no-brainer – a guy does this because he doesn’t want to be alone and he doesn’t want to “deal with himself.”

Usually when this happen, the guy only want to find rebound and xde feeling sangat pon dgn pasangan baru ini. 

If he jumps into another relationship, he can still maintain his dose of external female touch  ( if you know what i mean )  and self-esteem.

But what about the guy that  just starts hooking up with every girl he sees?

Every guy has a set of core values for who he is, what he stands for, and what he really wants out of life. Sometimes in a relationship, a guy will really, really love a girl and may start to compromise these core values. Maybe he changes his lifestyle, stops hanging out with certain friends, or changes his habits.

It seems innocent enough, but over time the guy lelaki itu akan mula merindui saat saat single dan core value yang dia simpan . It changes the guy  back and, in turn, changes the relationship. As a result,  the relationship usually suffers and, in the case of this example, ends.

When the relationship ends, that guy is forced to evaluate himself – he doesn’t like who he’s become and he doesn’t like the fact that his relationship and his love brought him to this place.

So what’s the solution? Hook up with a bunch of girls and have a series of flings. I mean, think about it – no chance of love, no chance of commitment  and plenty offun he can get.

Problem is, once the guy is done licking his wounds and bila teringat the pain of his past relationship, a feeling of loneliness will set in and hook-ups will seem empty and hollow.



Except of all the above , this is want most of guy handle their break up.

In my opinion, the best thing a guy can do is hang out with his friends after a breakup. Get some male perspective on the situation, forgive himself for what he wishes he did differently and take some time be single.

"Selalunya after break up, lelaki akan lebih sedih dari perempuan. Tetapi , lelaki hanya akan sedih sekejap, dan perempuan akan sedih  lebih lama. Ini sebab perempuan diberi kelebihan untuk menyorok perasaan . Untuk menyorok duka disebalik senyuman, even dia sebenarnya sangat sedih. This is happen because women are born multitasking . So bila perempuan sedih , die x dapat express dengan all out. Perempuan sangat lambat untuk move on. Unlike lelaki, they are direct. when they cry or sad , memang all out dan akan hilang dengan  cepat. "

BUT : in most case scenario . Bila lelaki  cepat move on, nanti lama2 lelaki akan cari exGF itu balik, while perempuan, lambat  move on  , but bila dia move on. She will never goes to her exBF

And Finally , when a guy break up, mostly will become single for a long time. 

And when I say single, I don’t mean single on a man-whore rampage or single because he’s seeing a girl that he doesn’t want to call his girlfriend. I mean single – comfortable with not having an attachment for a while without going to an extreme.
Sooner or later, a guy will come to this place of reconciliation with himself and I think it’s essential that he does before he starts another relationship.

Long story short, if a guy acts extreme after a breakup, it’s his way of dealing with  his emotions about his relationship and relationships in general. Its depend


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Online flirting while you already have a partner

Real Life Results of Virtual Behavior

So , rakan rakan  twitter will understand this . What's the harm in flirting online? It's practiced in most especially in twitter. After all, flirting is a courtship device. It's how we attract a mate; how we find that special someone. There are a lot of people who have found each other through chat rooms or online dating services. Lagi lagi masa #twtup . masing masing cari jodoh !

Flirtation is fun. We laugh and smile, we're more outgoing, we feel better physically and mentally because it  make us happy and that's good for us. Flirting not only helps us attract a mate, but it helps us retain a mate as well. It keeps a relationship fresh and interesting.

Howerver , what about those who are in a relationship and are flirting with someone else while their mate is sleeping or otherwise occupied? What's the harm . . . after all, it's not like you have any intention of meeting. It's fun. It's harmless . . . or is it?

The Shift

Although many people flirt while their GF/BF  is sleeping or otherwise occupied, there are real life consequences for the virtual flirt.
If you're flirting and you're hiding it from your mate, there is a reason you're hiding it. It feels wrong; it violates the standards you hold for yourself. It's a 'shift'; an emotional reaction, and when you feel that shift it's because something going on between your conscious and unconscious mind. Something about hiding it feels wrong, and it should. It's not just "bad form"; it's a violation of trust; it's dishonest, and it harms not only you but the others involved. You might want to examine your behavior and why you're even in the relationship.

The Consequences

 Those choices and actions color our perceptions; they change the way we perceive ourselves and they affect each subsequent choice we make.

Each time violate a standard we've held for ourselves, we feel that 'shift'. We've lowered our standard of what is acceptable for us. When we do that, we've lost a portion of our self worth, and once we've devalued not only our mate, but we've devalued ourselves.

Each time we do this, it becomes easier to violate the new lower standard we set. We've violated the trust of not only our mate, but we've violated the trust we had in ourselves, and possible the trust of the person you were flirting with.

For example korang pernah kan flirt , and then akan bercakap sendiri :  "I can't believe I did that," you know what I'm talking about.

Where does it lead? It leads to a downward spiral in which we begin justifying our unacceptable actions. It's easier to place blame on someone else than it is to look at ourselves. If we can blame 'it' on someone else, we don't have to examine and fix what is wrong with us.
When we begin lying to ourselves and believing our own lies we've crossed into an area full of shit.


SO DONT DO THAT .


p/s : Im sorry . 

7 Reasons why Long Distance Relationship SUCK

I got request from Samantha who lives in Tanbridge, England to publish a fully English post. well I'll try my best. :D .


We have all heard the sayings “absence makes the heart grow fonder”  Well whoever yang sebut  these terms obviously wasn’t in a long-distance relationship. Or they were  so completely annoying that their loved ones really don’t want to spend too much time with them.

Well if you ask me, I think long distance relationships suck. They suck worse than going back to class  after a vacation. They suck worse than parking tickets and sucker than finding out you have no shampoo when you’re already in the shower and your hair is already wet. I could go on, but you get the idea.


7 reasons why LDR  suck 


The awkward annoying  half smile people give you when you tell them your relationship status.

If you been in this relationship, You'll get what i mean . This happened when you show your GF's twitter profile to your friends. They all will like. "  What? you have a GF ? like seriously ? "  with that little annoying face.


The assumption of everyone else that he/she will cheat on you.

‘Why don’t you just break up, he’s going to cheat on you anyway’. Yeah, thanks a bunch, that’s what I want to hear.

People telling you that it will fail.

People have so many horror stories about their own or their  neighbor’s , brother’s experiences with long-distance relationships, and they feel the need to share with you. Why? How does that help any? All that does is turn me into a paranoid crazed fool.


Seeing happy couples everywhere you go.

I’m probably a little bit sick to death  with all the Valentine’s Day stuff. And then  when you’re hundreds or thousands of miles away from each other, seeing happy couples everywhere you go, is really crap. Feel like, everytime you saw a couple holdings hand,  they were doing it just to offend you.

Being the third wheel.

People said,  long-distance relationship means you have plenty of time to go out with my friends. And it does. Fuck that shit, if your friend bring her/his partner you will  end up being the third wheel, or fifth wheel, maybe even seventh wheel. Sometimes it will bother you , and finally you will end up stay at home, or even lunch alone and people in the cafe will look at you like a freaking pineapple.

The time difference.

I always thought being in a long-distance relationship was no big deal, you can just talk on the phone or on the internet instead of seeing each other in person. Sadly, I forgot about the time differences. When you’re in Malaysia, and she is in India, Croatia , Argentina or Australia it becomes a bit more difficult to talk all the time. the problem is not about stay at midnight .The problem is  when your time is late than the person, and she ask to Skype at freaking 6pm. NOBODY SKYPE AT 6pm. 

The high cost of international phone calls.

You know, sometime we feel like talking, when we are waiting for something, or driving. You called.  And after 20 minutes, then you realise. Shit. I just call an international number , im gonna sell my ass to pay the phone bills

"People said,  long-distance relationship means you have plenty of time to go out with my friends. And it does. Fuck that shit, if your friends bring her/his partner you will  end up being the third wheel, or fifth wheel, maybe even seventh wheel"

Anyways, Long distance relationship is not for anyone. Any couples out there, prove me wrong :)

18 People Who Will Never Get Out Of The Friend Zone

1. Anyone that makes a comfortable seat:

 

2. Anyone that does this:

3. Anyone that makes a good mirror:

4. Anyone that is also an extra layer of clothing:

5. Anyone that that pays this much attention to his/her friend's grooming:

6. Anyone that is a fraaaand:

7. Anyone that kisses someone only when they're not paying attention:

8. Anyone that goes on national television like this:

9. Anyone that hover hands this badly:

10. Anyone that is also a bridge:

11. Anyone that gets shut down via text message:

12. Anyone that helps you try on clothes:

13. Anyone that lives here:

14. Anyone that makes a good table:

15. Anyone that makes a good human suitcase:

16. Anyone that is Superman:

17. Anyone that is depressed over piggy back rides:

18. Anyone that knows this person:

THE SOLUTION :

Friendzone 3 (female version)

Well this topic is hard. Cause it rarely happen. :/

Guys always complain about being "friend zoned" but that happens to  females too.

Here is the situation :
 You get along better with him than anyone else.  You “get” each other.  He’s the only guy that you’ve ever felt truly understands you and with whom you can truly be yourself. He’s cute, he’s funny and when he’s around you, he completely let’s his guard down.  You get to see him as the man he truly is – an unguarded version of himself that he hides from the world and only seems to let you see. 

But when you told him how you felt about him, does he say, “I really love you.  You’re the most important girl in the world to me and I’ll always be there for you but I can’t be in a relationship with you – we need to just be friends.”

congratulation ! welcome to friendzone




How you girl want to know if you have been friendzone?

1. you helped this guy with his girlfrend issues and you really like him. they split up a few months ago. you wanna get with him now but its hard cuz you heard he likes someone else even though he flirts with you loads

2. You hate football, but you still go watching football with him, . 

3. have sex, but you are not a couple

4. friends with benefits


 This is the usual reason why its happen. i brainstorm so hard but i only could find these :/

1. Damaged goods

Maksud damage goods adalah there are some great guys out there that have had their heart broken one to many times.And when a guys decided to be single and dont want any relationship anymore, they really mean it.

2.  He’s not attracted to you “in that way”

  idk , maybe he dont like your look, your appearance or attitude.
 so all you have to do is improve yourself better.  dah bincang banyak kali dah kat previous post :) 

 3. Freedom of being single




4. The guys is on vacation.


Vacation mean he just flirting around and away from relationship 



Fyi, lelaki adalah seorang yang sangat straight forward person , they rarely friendzone someone. When they dont like some girl, they will put it into another zone. which is "Avoid - Zone " . So when a guy reject your love, thinks positively,  he is not the guy for you :)

Friendzone 2 ( Getting out of it )

ok here the situation 

Kau kenal sorang gadis. You hit it off pretty well. Korang start being friends. You kinda feel that she kinda has a thing for you, but you’re too scared to make a move. Kau ada peluang to take the relationship to the next level, but you’re still too scared so you don’t do anything. Masa berlalu . You’re still friends. You have a great time whenever you’re together, dan menjadi sangat rapat. When you FINALLY do get the courage to say or do something , i mean to confess , she delivers the ultimate blow: “I just want to be friends.”

Dang ! Welcome to friendzone !


Is there any hope for you? Fortunately, the answer is  “YES!”

Kebanyakkan lelaki ,  lari dari  friend zone usually means that you had a chance at the beginning, but then somehow, some way, for some reason or the other, YOU BLEW IT. You took a wrong turn somewhere, and ended up in the dreaded friend zone forever.

So how to escape?

1.) Accept the reality of the situation.

Jangan merayu dan melutu for her to give you a chance. She made a conscious decision to not be anything more than friends with you, and so x kira banyak mana la kau merayu, she  will not  change her mind. Instead, we’re going to approach the situation by working on her irrational and illogical side. Don’t withdraw yourself, but you’ll do much better if you start putting less focus on her and more focus on you at this stage of the process.

2.) Improve yourself.

Tak ada  satu orang pun dalam dunia ni yang x boleh buat  self-improvement. Come on guys, start lifting weights. Start eating healthy. Learn something new seperti music. pergi buat rambut yang comel comel.  Try out some sports. Get that adrenaline pumping through your veins. Trust me, you’ll feel much better about yourself and gain more self-confidence, and you’ll look better in the process (if you decide to work out).

3.) Have fun with other people.

If you are single, korang x boleh focus on just one person , EVER. Start meeting some people. Your friends have friends who have friends of their own. pergi masuk persatuan or something and socialize .  Meet girls and learn how to flirt well. Ironically, the more women you meet, the better you will do with the girl you’re trying to escape the friend zone with. The more jealous she gets, the better.

4.) Ask her for a Date.

Ajak dia pergi date berdua.  If she’s hesitant to go out with you  start asking her out on Non-Dates. A Non-Date is basically a get-together where you ask her to accompany you doing something that you would do anyway. Something like picking up some books, buying some new clothes, etc. Belanja la dia kadang kadang :)


5.) Flirt with her.
 kebanyakkan guys x dapat keluar dari friendzone sebab dorang x realize that it’s a matter of sexual attraction . So start teasing her playfully. Start with playful compliments until you can eventually move on to flirting that’s more sexual in nature. let me teach you my fav line :D

Sometime, I notice that she put on some perfume.  I 'll said “ You smell too good , You cannot wear that perfume around me any more, because I’m afraid that I won’t be able to hold control myself and do something BAD.”

6.) Touch her !
Kalau kau x buat semua move before, kau x boleh tetiba terus sentuh okay:D . okay like this : Start slow with casual touches on the arm, tepuk tepuk bahu ke, picit perut dia, or checking fingernail. kalau tengah jungle tracking, hulur lah tangan tolong dia. . Then graduate to holding hands or  hugs.

7.) Make your move. It all depend on you bro. 


If you do steps 5-7 well enough, you will find that you’ll be gradually escalating. Your flirting becomes more sexual by nature, she starts being touchier with you, and your dates become more serious. By the time that this happens, you have done well. To accomplish your mission of , yang terakhir. , you MUST make your move. Sebab dah jadi lumrah, perempuan xkan start dulu. There is no way in hell that she is going to be making the first move, but she will be giving you hints that it’s okay to do something now. Do not be a fool and miss this second chance! When opportunity knocks, open the door and pounce on it.

And that’s it! I know it’s VERY simplified, but that’s the basic process that you must follow from beginning to end if you want to know how to get out of the friend zone. Take it slow, and kadang kadang took  more heartbreaks to finally figure it out. But if its dont work. simply, he is not the girl for you :)

P/s : Goodluck broooooo :)

Friendzone

haha i just love this topic cuz i think this shit is happening to everybody.


What is Friendzone ? 

menurut wikipedia, ensiklopedia percuma. FriendZone bermaksud :  

 " A platonic relationship  where one person wishes to enter into a romantic relationship while the other does not. It is generally considered to be an undesirable situation by the lovelorn person^. Once the friend zone is established, it is said to be difficult to move beyond that point in a relationship."

So macam mana kita nak tahu yang kita sedang Di Friendzone kan oleh seseorang ?

You are in the friendzone when you like her but...

1. She Tells You About Other Guys She's Interested In

If a girl tells you something like that "there's this cute guy I've been talking to, but I don't know if he's actually interested in me or not", then she's probably not romantically interested in you.pastu korang pon terpaksa layann


2. She keep story about her EX to you. 

you are totally friendzoned bila , x kira berapa kali korang cakap ex dorang teruk and jerk, and they still cant move on or stop tellin anything about the ex. congratulation, welcome to friend zone.


3. you guys are best friend and know each other for so long but never touch each other.

yes, ini adalah salah satu symptom. im not talking about intimate touch and stuff, but usually even friend they touch each other. such as tepuk2 bahu, cek dahi kalau demam, tolong tarik tangan masa jungle tracking ke. yes, sound silly right. even korang dah lama kenal , kadang2 dorang saja avoid touch sebab takut nanti akan datang perasaan cinta tersebut. :D

4.You're Naturally A Nice person

sorry, but usually, nice person do finish last . because they are easy to be tricked by others


5.  you always help her/him  , but the opposite person never does . 
sigh. you know this always happend contoh nye. bila dorang ajak tengok wayang. dorang macam
"jom la pleaseeee"  . and you go sebab taknak dia tgk movie sorang2. but bila korang ajak die. They all were like " malas laaa, busy laa, ada hal sikit " . bila dia x pernah makan sorang , sebab kau teman, tapi kau selalu makan sorang and forever alone. Yes, congratulation. again.



p/s : this is awkward, i feel like describing myself :/

what a girl want in a guy ?

hi. :)

What women want in a man?

7 A Sense of Adventure . 

Almost every guys akan mengaku yang dorang ada sense of adventure. but actually the number yang ada sense ni adalah sikit. come on guys, You don’t have to be BASE jumping off water towers or swim buckling on the high sea to get laid. i mean to find ladies. :D .  just have fun stuff planned from time to time and let yourself go with the flow if something exciting comes up. Involve her in things she might not ordinarily do and be willing to do some things that are out of your comfort zone too.

6  Some Emotional stuff 


the ladies like to see that you can empathize and connect with them, not just do and say things because they seem appropriate. Figure out who she is and show her you understand her and the things that are important to her. you know , i give one tips, perempuan suka kalau kita tunjuk barang yang ada  sentimental value kepada kita

Eg :

Ali :  "cincin ni nenek saya yang bagi. tapi dia dah meninggal, jadi I pakai supaya i boleh ingat dia sepanjang masa "

Alyah : " Aww ur so sweettt "

5 Acceptance from Other Women

guys, x kisah lah korang amazing , sekacak dan sekaya TMJ pon  and your lady is head over heels in love with you, that’s great. But, if she finds out you mother issue, or your longest relationship only lasted a month or banyak gila EX boyfriend , no matter how she felt about you before this revelation, she’s going to have some serious concerns.






4 Decision Making Skills

ni paling penting kalau pergi dating. remember guys, jangan bagi gadis gadis comel ini take control ke atas anda. Be the guy with the plan. Let’s hope so, because although plenty of ladies like to take control many will rely on you to do things like pick the restaurant or choose the vacation. Showing that you’re unsure when making everyday decisions is a sure way to let her down. choose the best thing and never disappoint her. You minght end your date with a kiss.

3 Ambition 

Show that u have ambition and skills, She just wants to see that you have your own interests, plans that you follow through with and skills that you can master. . Oh, and that you can  make enough money to take her out once in a while.

2 Chemistry

x kisah kalau  sexual, sensual, or flirtation: chemistry is something yang  women want to feel happening. We may not fully understand notions of things  in the way that they do. sometimes its true that perempuan ada six sense , mereka dapat rasa if you are the one and if  she’s found loads of great qualities she’s always looked for, if there isn’t chemistry there to glue those pieces together, she’ll feel that something is off. If thats happened, u wont last long.

 

1 Confidence

figure it out yourself :)
 

P/s : good to be back here again :)

5 things Guys hate to hear from a girl .

5 things Guys scared to hear from a girl . 

• My ex used to ...

                This is major turn off . 

• Do i look fat? 

 xkire bape banyak kali guys cakap u look great or u are thin enough, she is definitely gonna ask                       the same question again. 

• Fine..

               Something is  wrong cuz she is actually not fine.!

• Nothing !

                 everybody know its not gonna be nothing on her mind, and it must be something bothered her.

• Do what you want !

She actually mean DONT do what you want.  haha. 

P/s : if she said all this thing, you might have a big trouble. haha :D

5 Things Girls love to hear

5 Things Girls love to hear 

• Compliments
• Compliments
• Compliments
• Compliments
• Compliments

That's what girls answered to the question. Every single girl likes to be listened to and complimented, brushed and over-brushed in the right way, at the right time, by the right person. Pay attention to her, be honest, and speak from your heart. But don't overdo it. annoying nanti.  :D

Here are some example untuk korang. :)

Indirect ComplimentsVery subtle at first.

- I like this color.- You're right.

Direct compliment 

Excellent for first approach.
- I like your shirt. I like your skirt... I like your earrings.- I like your bracelet. Can I see it?

Top compliments
- You're gorgeous.
- You're very pretty. - You're beautiful... or You look beautiful tonight...

But again. dont overdo it. haha











P/s : People call me fat and i take that as a compliment. haha

Easy to crash hard to fall

Its been 3 month since i left this  page ! OMG . im sorry follower if korang tension tgk blog ni x update. haha . well lots of this happened . such as, i broke up with my gf. well, many people thought aku Dr.Love. Hebat sgt bende pasal Love ni. But im just me. an hopeless romantic creature.  Break up is not something unusual,

" people will break up, it just the matter of time. Is it break by death ? " - (zikri, 2011)

so today topic~

Guys : Easy are to crush but hard to fall  


Situation : 
Girls, korang pernah x be in this situation where a  u know this guy, and u like him. At start, he seem to like you very much,  he cant keep his eyes of a  you, and he keep winning your heart. And finally,  you just head over heel for him.  But , when the time you about to giving a hint, that you LOVE him, and want more than a friendship. the guy start to keep a distance , and slowly you will lose him. And finally , he just another stranger u just meet.

Guys are easy to crush. 
For the first time nampak girl yang attractive, guys would say WOAHH ! .  They will do everything to win your attention. Because they are crush on you.

But guys are hard to fall in love. 
When the time he got to know more about you, how you living your day, your friend, your behavior,and your attitude with him. If its not like what he want, The crush feeling will gone, and its gonna be impossible to fall in love.  so bye bye .


So the only way to grab his heart, do not be too pushie. make him fall for you. Show the best of you to him. Take it slow and try to learn him more.  One day, when he realize, he will fall for you really hard .  

However, if you try so hard and its like never work out. Simple, he is not the  guy for you. :)

P/s ; drive safe , do not crush. :)

10 ways to win your favorite guy heart !

Whats up guy. before kita start let pray to the tsunami and earthquake victim that happened  on 13 march 2011 in Japan. May Allah be with them all the times. I always been my dream untuk jejak kan kaki kat sana, but Japan is now longer macam dlu. too bad. :(

Anyway, im gonna exposed the greatest secret in a guy life history. Girl, take note, You dont wanna miss this shit :)


10 simple way to win your favorite guy heart!!


1. Be attractive.
Listen, be attractive x semestinya korang kene buat plastik surgery macam Megan Fox or Vanessa Hugdsen . Enough untuk  korang jaga kulit , rambut and stuff. Kalo ada parut2 tu beli la cream hilang kan.  Put a LITTLE BIT of make up during dates. Try untuk guna kan fashion yang paling sesuai dgn you guy. Combine a lot of attractive colour and appearance kene tip top. Surely the guy will stunned each time looking at you . You dont have to be beautiful, you just have to be attractives :)

2.  BE ATTENTIVE
Guys like ladies who are fully interested on him . Listen to his dreams, his fears, his heart. And keep his confidences. Be supportive and never let him down. Kalo die suka buat something,such as music or acting on teater, show that u are supportive, be there during the performance and wish him luck. He'll probably know that you are the reason  his confidence is always rise.

3 . BE KIND TO THE PEOPLE THAT ARE IMPORTANT TO HIM
His Friend , mom, sister, friends, etc. (whenever possible).  Show him that u are friendly and very easy to get along with anybody. He definitely will bring u anywhere  :)

4. Never be his best  friend.

Relationship sesama rakan 100 %  sama sekali ditegah!  Term best friend is used when u are suppose to know everything about her, and sharing the greatest problem or sadness. However, its dangerous kalo korang tahu too much pasal guy. So  of cos die xnak in relationship with someone yang tau everything pasal die. Beside, he trust u as a friend, not as a girlfriend. Do not gamble your friendship. Its either you gonna hurt yourself, or your friendship will be sour. When the first time u see him, u should already thinking, u want him as a BF or a bestfriend. Thats it.

5. Do not be too much literally.

Don't assume that men "read between the lines" and wonder what you "mean" by your actions. They take things more literally than women do. If you want them to know something, just tell them. Xpayah nak bercekerama or berpuitis when its come to antyhing. . Some time u can, but when it too much . Depa pun malas nak layan. 

6.Xpayah nak ubah dia sangat lah kan

Don't think that you can change anything about a man that you don't like. Only the man can change himself. He will resent you trying to change him. A guy is always a guy, u cant change him. But when it come to realationship, it have to be from both side. If hes doing something yang korang x suka , such as FLIRT dgn org lain. . Show him that ur sad or x suka each time he do that. He will realise that he just broke your heart, and will change himself. If he still doesnt change. Just leave him.

7. Talk.

 Talk  a lot when the times is right :) 

8. Makanan !

 As you may have heard the saying go, “The best way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.” What better way to impress a guy than to bring him food. Kaji selidik sikit to find out what foods he likes, go to restaurants where he has a favorite dish. Offer to bring him some cookies or snacks. so much better if you bake or cook them yourself. If a guy’s full, then he’s happy. So try to help the guy you have an interest in have a full stomach. If he remembers you as helping to feed him, he’ll definitely remember you and will want to be around you as well. 

9. Fun

Do not being too rigid, be an open minded.  Be more fun, play games with him. 

10.  BE YOURSELF

Finally.The most important.Forget what all the so called “experts” like me say.(haahaha) .

Be the best you that you can be, without the games and manipulation. If he doesn’t accept it, then he’s simply not the guy for you!

HARD - TO - GET games Part 2 ( stop it!!)

Hey guys.  we'll meet again. looks like this blog is back on track.
let focus on the next topic :)

Stop the "HARD - TO - GET " games.
so. remember what we discover on guys on the 5th post (i guess) ? 
how guys handling problem is by, thinking and   solve the problem sedaya upaya. but when its too hard, or when he know he cant solve it. he'll tend to FORGET IT . 


So here's the deal ladies. 
u play hard to get with a guy. But , when its too hard, it would be a problem, and when its still hard . LET JUST FORGET IT.!
So If you like the dude, come on, let him reach you once in a while. nanti melepas pulak kan. haha


So when is the turning point, where u x perlu main games ni lagi? 

Every games has its END, and so do this game
But the timing has to be very particular right.
girls, korang kene bukak mata bukak hati bukak segala nye. renungkan dan pikir.
After all this while, after all these games. He's never give up, never surrender, keep on chasing . And maybe this is time to forget about the games and all give all your heart and trust to him. Trust me, the guys will be the happiest guys in the world if he knew it  :) 


What if you dont stop the games ? 
Looks, a guys can be easily give up. and when he's give up. he'll stop chasing and searching for others (oh god) . Dalam fikiran dia. He'll find you xde perasaan kat dia or she is actually a lesbian . 
Just imagine, a guy really2 love you . He gave you all the attention and all the love but u still play -hard to -get which is completely not reasonable by now. 
Just when the guy realise. "maybe she'll never be fully mine" , 
you'll be the one who suffer.


Show him that you  are actually :

Care  on how he doing 

Sensitive about the love feeling

Touched by what he'd done for you.

Emotional when things not in the right place. 

Show him that you miss and waiting for him. 

Again i mention the simple rule. STOP THE GAMES WHEN ITS PROVEN  THAT HE'S REALLY LOVES  YOU.

Do not wait until the guy sing a Grenade for you!!


I’d catch a grenade for ya (yeah, yeah, yeah)
Throw my hand on a blade for ya (yeah, yeah, yeah)
I’d jump in front of a train for ya (yeah, yeah , yeah)
You know I'd do anything for ya (yeah, yeah, yeah)
Oh, oh
I would go through all this pain,
Take a bullet straight through my brain,
Yes, I would die for ya baby;
But you won't do the same.

(lagu bruno mars  memang x logik belaka)

"Playing hard to get is not the same as being hard to get, although the hapless victim of love may not realize  that the girls  is actually opened up the opportunities for the guys to prove something."

P/s : Is totally addicted to grenade. haha