Hello guys,

Sorry for the long hiatus. Guess Im back. But this time, a special episode!

We gonna talk about sweet potato made from Chiba, Japan. Unlike Malaysian potato, Chiba Sweet Potato is brown in colour and taste very sweet. It is not added any preservative, but just natural sugar that content in the potato. Old folks in Malaysia usually consume sweet potato but adding sugar or also "sambal" which is spicy but delicious. You can try it with chiba sweet potato as well ! Some people add vanila ice cream in their recipe, but i prefer the original taste.

It contain lots fibre, carbohydrate and enough nutrition to keep our body healthy. Thats why its a main food in Japan ! Sweet potato lover can rush to Bangsar Village, Village Grocer to your potato with very affordable price. I buy 5 potato was only RM25. The best thing is, #chibasweetpotato is best to eat any time! As a staple food, main dish or dessert. Try it out now !

P/s : I dont mind to be called Mr.Potato

The Ultimate High Five test .

Here the situation, :
you have been dating with this girl for a while and you're ready to go for the next level. But somehow you're too blind to see the sign given by the lady so you not sure if she will accept or not.


So here the hi five test to figure out if a woman is interested … here is a little test you can do that will help you gage the amount of interest a woman has.

What you have to do : 
As you’re talking to that person , and she says something you like, give her a high five.

We all know that he key is that as you slap her hand sort of grip her fingers for a split second. Her reaction to this indicates her comfort level around you.


If she pulls her hand immediately away, or leaves her fingers limp, she probably still does not feel comfortable around you. 

On the other hand, if she hold her hand there for a second, grips your fingers back, or sort of lets her hand slide against yours … it’s a pretty good indicator that you’ve developed a nice level of rapport with her.

P/S  : Good luck :) 

How to detect lies .

So last semester i took a psychology  subject and they teach me how to detect lies. So Im gonna share it here :)


When you asked a question to  right-handed person looks (from your viewpoint, looking at them):




Up and to the Left
Indicates: Visually Constructed Images (Vc)
If you asked someone to "Imagine a purple boobs ", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Visually Constructed" a purple boobs in their mind.



Up and to the Right
Indicates: Visually Remembered Images (Vr)
If you asked someone to "What color was the first house you lived in?", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Visually Remembered" the color of their childhood home.



To the Left
Indicates: Auditory Constructed (Ac)
If you asked someone to "Try and create the highest the sound of the pitch possible in your head", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Auditorily Constructed" this this sound that they have never heard of.


To the Right
Indicates: Auditory Remembered (Ar)
If you asked someone to "Remember what their mother's voice sounds like ", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they "Auditorily Remembered " this sound.


Down and to the Left
Indicates: Feeling / Kinesthetic (F)
If you asked someone to "Can you remember the smell of your girlfriend hair? ", this would be the direction their eyes moved in while thinking about the question as they used recalled a smell, feeling, or taste.

 


Down and To the Right
Indicates: Internal Dialog (Ai)
This is the direction of someone eyes as they "talk to themselves".

 

 

How this information is used to detect lies:

Example: Ask your guy  what he was  doing last night ?

If he lie, his eyes will be UP and LEFT. because he is creating a stories using the visually constructive image. He might say he was at friend house playing D.O.T.A , but actually he went to a movie with a stunning  45kg girl .

 If he telling the truth his eyes will be UP and RIGHT . Because he use the visually remembered image. If he play DOTA, he will say he play DOTA.

However, if he said he was playing D.O.T.A , this will set up a certain impression that a guy who play DOTA is boring and socially lame or nerd or something. So basically the guy would still have to lie and tell her he was playing guitar . Sorry ladies, we just have to lie.

Men love to lie, and how bout ladies?

liar, liar.

When I mean lying, I don't only mean lying to other women. Men will lie to everyone with impunity about anything and everything under the sun, from the number of women he has slept with and his dick  size, to how much he bench presses at the gym .

So the theory is . Men love to lie, but they are absolutely horrible at it. Women rarely lie, but when they do, it's a story so good that it could be the basis for 100 episodes of a Indon Drama




For example : 
1 ) When a couple are dating,  An attractive awesome lady  comes down the street. then the GF said " she is soooo prettyyyyyyy "  and  to be wise the guys shall not agree with her  and better say that person is  ugly and full of cellulite.



2) Your girl  put on a few extra pounds, the guy HAVE to say  she's in the best shape of her life.

3) You ask you BF what he's doing. He probably say " nothing ". yeah righttttt




To be clear, a guy lie  because he is lazy, he is lazy to talk or drag a conversation too long. But beyond the faults women might have, men don't always have to lie. This thing come spontaneously when we deal with something that we know could lead to anything.  But most of it are harmless lie.

These lies are often at the tip of their tongues and ready for any situation.

It's not entirely men's faults. They are raised to lie from the moment they are born. Protect your family and lie about bad things; lie about how you really wanted to cry during Forrest Gump ; lie about your age so you can buy cigarettes  at  7-11

lying for a living

Is it a coincidence that men hold the majority of jobs that involve lying? Politics, government agencies, courtroom lawyers, plastic surgeons, psychiatrists -- who calls the shots? GUYS

Not that all men lie, of course not. But from experience (and 99% of women will back me up on this), the only men who don't lie are those devoted to their religion, gay, or have had their tongue removed.

Now let's turn the tables. Men lie often, but most times these are harmless lies that are said to protect their ego more than anything. Women have ulterior motives.

Laddies  fib

Women hate lying. But unlike men, when they have to, they carefully craft a maze of stories, alibis and twists the whole story .

If men were a little smarter, they would figure out when a woman is lying. Here are some clues to let you know when a woman is spinning a wicked web (hint, hint, it's learning time).

Clue No. 1
The Unnecessary Phone Call
She calls you suddenly and ask as much information about your whereabouts and what your future schedule is for the rest of the day.
Will she sound suspicious?
Not really, she'll smoothen out all her answers with what she will do to you tomorrow .
What is she really trying to do?
She's trying to take how much of an alibi she needs and where you were during the day to prevent you from bluffing later about knowing her whereabouts or what she about to do then she go date with someone else  .

Clue No. 2
The Reversal
She does something out of the ordinary, and when you ask her about it, she turns it around and make it a question about trust, and how you have no right to question her.
What is she really doing?
slowly, she has put the thing men dread on the table; the talk about "feeling". There is no better way to divert suspicion than to get a man into a talk about trust. or  worst case she started to mengungkit kisah lama.
End result?
He won't ask another question, and she just got away with going out to lunch with a cute hair guy.


Clue No. 3
The Affection Level Is Too High
Is there anything more suspicious than when a woman suddenly starts kissing you or do something to seduce you
 What's going on?
The beginning of a cover-up some shitt
What did she do wrong?
Something very, very bad. Or she's pregnant.

 Women hate lying, they do it only out of necessity. Men love it; it gives them validation to their illusions or laziness.  Women do it like professionals; men do it with amateurish results.

Why guys always chill when it comes to break up ?

Pernah dengar tak ayat ayat macam ni? :

•  “When a guy’s relationship ends, he replaces her. When a woman’s relationship ends, she mourns and cry all night forever. ,” 
•  “He’s just hooking up with such-and-such to spite the ex-girlfriend,” 
•  “Guys just don’t care”

Tapi semua itu adalah tidak betul ! I'll show you some of the universal truths about guys and breakups – some of which may surprise you

 Breakups are hard on all guys and they also cry ! .  Simple enough to say, but I know plenty of women will talk about some guy who was an   jackass to her after the relationship fell apart.
The fact is: If a guy is found really terrible after a breakup, it is just testament to how rough the breakup was on him. Some people have to understand

But what about the guy who breaks up and goes totally cold?

This will happen when the girls part make mistake. For example perempuan tu curang, and he is not happy. Thus we the break up occur, he will feel better.

Guys like to keep their emotional  focused on a tight range of emotions. So any interaction that a guy knows will bring him out of that sweet range of emotions is an interaction he’s going to do everything he can to avoid. So he can avoid missing her.

Personally, I have had breakups where I pretty much went cold and normal . It’s not that I simply stopped caring. I wanted her to be OK, I wanted good things for her in life, but I knew that nothing was going to make the situation better.

Nothing can help it anymore, especially bila most of it from the ladies mistake . I realize it probably came off jerky, but when I cut off communication, my heart is in the right place.

But what about the guy that immediately gets into a new relationship right afterward?

This is a no-brainer – a guy does this because he doesn’t want to be alone and he doesn’t want to “deal with himself.”

Usually when this happen, the guy only want to find rebound and xde feeling sangat pon dgn pasangan baru ini. 

If he jumps into another relationship, he can still maintain his dose of external female touch  ( if you know what i mean )  and self-esteem.

But what about the guy that  just starts hooking up with every girl he sees?

Every guy has a set of core values for who he is, what he stands for, and what he really wants out of life. Sometimes in a relationship, a guy will really, really love a girl and may start to compromise these core values. Maybe he changes his lifestyle, stops hanging out with certain friends, or changes his habits.

It seems innocent enough, but over time the guy lelaki itu akan mula merindui saat saat single dan core value yang dia simpan . It changes the guy  back and, in turn, changes the relationship. As a result,  the relationship usually suffers and, in the case of this example, ends.

When the relationship ends, that guy is forced to evaluate himself – he doesn’t like who he’s become and he doesn’t like the fact that his relationship and his love brought him to this place.

So what’s the solution? Hook up with a bunch of girls and have a series of flings. I mean, think about it – no chance of love, no chance of commitment  and plenty offun he can get.

Problem is, once the guy is done licking his wounds and bila teringat the pain of his past relationship, a feeling of loneliness will set in and hook-ups will seem empty and hollow.



Except of all the above , this is want most of guy handle their break up.

In my opinion, the best thing a guy can do is hang out with his friends after a breakup. Get some male perspective on the situation, forgive himself for what he wishes he did differently and take some time be single.

"Selalunya after break up, lelaki akan lebih sedih dari perempuan. Tetapi , lelaki hanya akan sedih sekejap, dan perempuan akan sedih  lebih lama. Ini sebab perempuan diberi kelebihan untuk menyorok perasaan . Untuk menyorok duka disebalik senyuman, even dia sebenarnya sangat sedih. This is happen because women are born multitasking . So bila perempuan sedih , die x dapat express dengan all out. Perempuan sangat lambat untuk move on. Unlike lelaki, they are direct. when they cry or sad , memang all out dan akan hilang dengan  cepat. "

BUT : in most case scenario . Bila lelaki  cepat move on, nanti lama2 lelaki akan cari exGF itu balik, while perempuan, lambat  move on  , but bila dia move on. She will never goes to her exBF

And Finally , when a guy break up, mostly will become single for a long time. 

And when I say single, I don’t mean single on a man-whore rampage or single because he’s seeing a girl that he doesn’t want to call his girlfriend. I mean single – comfortable with not having an attachment for a while without going to an extreme.
Sooner or later, a guy will come to this place of reconciliation with himself and I think it’s essential that he does before he starts another relationship.

Long story short, if a guy acts extreme after a breakup, it’s his way of dealing with  his emotions about his relationship and relationships in general. Its depend


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Online flirting while you already have a partner

Real Life Results of Virtual Behavior

So , rakan rakan  twitter will understand this . What's the harm in flirting online? It's practiced in most especially in twitter. After all, flirting is a courtship device. It's how we attract a mate; how we find that special someone. There are a lot of people who have found each other through chat rooms or online dating services. Lagi lagi masa #twtup . masing masing cari jodoh !

Flirtation is fun. We laugh and smile, we're more outgoing, we feel better physically and mentally because it  make us happy and that's good for us. Flirting not only helps us attract a mate, but it helps us retain a mate as well. It keeps a relationship fresh and interesting.

Howerver , what about those who are in a relationship and are flirting with someone else while their mate is sleeping or otherwise occupied? What's the harm . . . after all, it's not like you have any intention of meeting. It's fun. It's harmless . . . or is it?

The Shift

Although many people flirt while their GF/BF  is sleeping or otherwise occupied, there are real life consequences for the virtual flirt.
If you're flirting and you're hiding it from your mate, there is a reason you're hiding it. It feels wrong; it violates the standards you hold for yourself. It's a 'shift'; an emotional reaction, and when you feel that shift it's because something going on between your conscious and unconscious mind. Something about hiding it feels wrong, and it should. It's not just "bad form"; it's a violation of trust; it's dishonest, and it harms not only you but the others involved. You might want to examine your behavior and why you're even in the relationship.

The Consequences

 Those choices and actions color our perceptions; they change the way we perceive ourselves and they affect each subsequent choice we make.

Each time violate a standard we've held for ourselves, we feel that 'shift'. We've lowered our standard of what is acceptable for us. When we do that, we've lost a portion of our self worth, and once we've devalued not only our mate, but we've devalued ourselves.

Each time we do this, it becomes easier to violate the new lower standard we set. We've violated the trust of not only our mate, but we've violated the trust we had in ourselves, and possible the trust of the person you were flirting with.

For example korang pernah kan flirt , and then akan bercakap sendiri :  "I can't believe I did that," you know what I'm talking about.

Where does it lead? It leads to a downward spiral in which we begin justifying our unacceptable actions. It's easier to place blame on someone else than it is to look at ourselves. If we can blame 'it' on someone else, we don't have to examine and fix what is wrong with us.
When we begin lying to ourselves and believing our own lies we've crossed into an area full of shit.


SO DONT DO THAT .


p/s : Im sorry . 

7 Reasons why Long Distance Relationship SUCK

I got request from Samantha who lives in Tanbridge, England to publish a fully English post. well I'll try my best. :D .


We have all heard the sayings “absence makes the heart grow fonder”  Well whoever yang sebut  these terms obviously wasn’t in a long-distance relationship. Or they were  so completely annoying that their loved ones really don’t want to spend too much time with them.

Well if you ask me, I think long distance relationships suck. They suck worse than going back to class  after a vacation. They suck worse than parking tickets and sucker than finding out you have no shampoo when you’re already in the shower and your hair is already wet. I could go on, but you get the idea.


7 reasons why LDR  suck 


The awkward annoying  half smile people give you when you tell them your relationship status.

If you been in this relationship, You'll get what i mean . This happened when you show your GF's twitter profile to your friends. They all will like. "  What? you have a GF ? like seriously ? "  with that little annoying face.


The assumption of everyone else that he/she will cheat on you.

‘Why don’t you just break up, he’s going to cheat on you anyway’. Yeah, thanks a bunch, that’s what I want to hear.

People telling you that it will fail.

People have so many horror stories about their own or their  neighbor’s , brother’s experiences with long-distance relationships, and they feel the need to share with you. Why? How does that help any? All that does is turn me into a paranoid crazed fool.


Seeing happy couples everywhere you go.

I’m probably a little bit sick to death  with all the Valentine’s Day stuff. And then  when you’re hundreds or thousands of miles away from each other, seeing happy couples everywhere you go, is really crap. Feel like, everytime you saw a couple holdings hand,  they were doing it just to offend you.

Being the third wheel.

People said,  long-distance relationship means you have plenty of time to go out with my friends. And it does. Fuck that shit, if your friend bring her/his partner you will  end up being the third wheel, or fifth wheel, maybe even seventh wheel. Sometimes it will bother you , and finally you will end up stay at home, or even lunch alone and people in the cafe will look at you like a freaking pineapple.

The time difference.

I always thought being in a long-distance relationship was no big deal, you can just talk on the phone or on the internet instead of seeing each other in person. Sadly, I forgot about the time differences. When you’re in Malaysia, and she is in India, Croatia , Argentina or Australia it becomes a bit more difficult to talk all the time. the problem is not about stay at midnight .The problem is  when your time is late than the person, and she ask to Skype at freaking 6pm. NOBODY SKYPE AT 6pm. 

The high cost of international phone calls.

You know, sometime we feel like talking, when we are waiting for something, or driving. You called.  And after 20 minutes, then you realise. Shit. I just call an international number , im gonna sell my ass to pay the phone bills

"People said,  long-distance relationship means you have plenty of time to go out with my friends. And it does. Fuck that shit, if your friends bring her/his partner you will  end up being the third wheel, or fifth wheel, maybe even seventh wheel"

Anyways, Long distance relationship is not for anyone. Any couples out there, prove me wrong :)